Have you ever dealt with a hater? Online or offline. Someone who just refuses to accept what you do. Someone who will criticize even your best moments. They’ll say negative things about you. They’ll say negative things about your work. They’ll curse you out.
Sometimes you’ll take offense to what they say. And if feels personal every time. As if you did something wrong, when you were trying to do the right thing. As if they specifically chose you. But you are not alone. Everyone has haters. Look around. Look at the most famous people in your field. They have haters. Look at famous celebrities in TV & Movies. They have haters. Political leaders? Yeah, they have haters. Famous athletes, trust me they have haters too. Anyone who has worked hard and received a little bit of recognition is bound to have at least one hater.
And that’s because people get jealous. They wish they could do what you are doing. They probably never even made an attempt to achieve their goals. And that’s 100% certain. You know why? Because if they were actually chasing after their goals they wouldn’t have time and energy to hate on you. They would be too busy pursuing their dreams. But they’re not. Instead, they spend their time attacking someone who is out there pushing it to the limit.
It may seem like there are so many haters out there. But they are the vocal minority. Most people will appreciate your work if it’s coming from the right place. If you’re trying to do something important: create art, help people, solve problems, or just achieve your own personal goals, you are doing something good for the world. Positivity spreads. Your success will help other people have success. Why do you think motivation channels like this one exist?
Haters are a sign that you are working hard. That you are pushing yourself too the limit. When you get haters, you should see it as a good thing. That means you’ve built a level of success or even just a work ethic that other people can’t match.
So what do you do about haters? If it’s online, you ignore it. Delete it. Send it to the spam folder. Block ‘em. Forget them. It’s easily ignored and quickly forgotten. But what if the haters are in real life? If they’re your friends? Sometimes it happens. Friends turn into haters through jealous. You want to surround yourself with successful, hard working people. You don’t necessarily have to ditch these people, but you may want to see a little less of them.
What if your co-workers are haters? You might want to examine the company you work for. If the workers aren’t motivated for support and change, how can any accomplishments ever happen? How can you move forward if people want to pull you down?
The bottom line is, you need to keep on pushing. Regardless of other people’s reactions, you need to keep going. Supporters and people who give encouraging words are excellent, but the real supporter is you. Your moral and your desire are internal.
And if all else fails, I’m your supporter. I want you to push hard and succeed. Then share your motivation with others, just as I do.
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